"Any marriage more than a week old has grounds for divorce.

The trick is to find grounds to stay together.”

More important in a marriage than passion are kindness, respect and generosity. Only then can true love follows.

How do we express kindness in marriage or in any relationships in our lives when all we feel is anger, bitterness and resentment? What does respect look like when everything seems to pain, annoy and repulse us? How can we be generous when all we want to do is withhold and withdraw?

Surely, everyone agrees that peace in the home is of utmost importance, but how are we to attain this greatest of virtues, much less joy in our marriage when we’ve never witnessed or experienced it? 

Let's start from scratch.